Tuesday, July 16, 2013

summer nights

Life seems to have gotten away from us lately, so we took a night off on Friday to see The King and I at the IMA.  Our first real date night in a while. 
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We packed a picnic, watched the sunset and sat back to enjoy the classic musical (one of my all-time favorites) under the stars.
 
The evening certainly wasn't perfect, but it was real.  It was fun.  For one evening, we set aside all of the current baggage of our "normal lives," and picked up a blanket and picnic basket instead.  We got (unnecessarily) competitive over card games.  We stayed up too late and ate too much popcorn.... and it was so freeing.  Just like when we were first dating.
I think somewhere along the way, a lot of married couples forget how to date each other.  Life just gets in the way.  But it's amazing how one imperfect evening under the stars on a blanket with your love can lift that heavy burden of life off of your shoulders, even just temporarily, and bring you back to each other.  In that evening, you feel truly alive together - just like when you first fell in love. 

Monday, July 15, 2013

stars and stripes

Last weekend, we were blessed with a long weekend off of work to celebrate the Fourth of July.  On is the Fourth itself, we headed downtown for our tradition - attending an Indianapolis Indians game and then watching the downtown fireworks from the stadium.  We had a great time with Steve's brother and his girlfriend.  I really enjoyed getting in some quality time with them - since we all have busy work schedules, we don't get to hang out half as much as I would like.  And we had great seats at the sold-out game!
Rowdy kept trying to get people to stand up and get...well, rowdy.  It didn't work on us, but this lady in front looooved it.  So awesome. 
On Friday, we drove up to Gannie's house to spend the weekend with my extended family.  It was the first time to see many of them since our wedding last year, so it was great to catch up and reconnect.  I spent many Fourth of Julys at Gannie's as a kid, so it was fun to re-live those memories and share them with Steve. Here's one of my many memories - this cute little playhouse lies "hidden" in the backyard.  The grandkids spent countless hours out here over the years and it still makes me smile to see it, even if I don't comfortably fit into it anymore :)
Dune Acres officially celebrated the Fourth on Saturday the Sixth.  The town had an entire day of festivities planned, started with a 5K run through the dunes.  Check out our matching t-shirts!

Next up was the annual 4th of July Parade.  My grandparents have owned this antique army jeep for years and it is a staple in the parade.  When we were little, all six of us grandkids would squeeze our way into the backseat waving American flags like crazy. Nowadays, only three of us fit comfortably - Steve, my cousin Talia, and me - plus Lyla.  Her first puppy parade!
After the reading of the Declaration of Independence...
...we were ready to begin!
The parade's grand finale was a hot dog cookout at the beach. 
That evening, the town set off fireworks on the beach.  That's the best way to watch fireworks, let me tell ya - with your feet in the sand!
On Sunday, we spent the afternoon looking through old memories that my grandma is sorting through.  There is something so special to me about reading old letters and cards from family members.  The love letters that Pops wrote to my grandma brought tears to my eyes.  And I couldn't help but smile at pictures of my mom as a little kid.
Of all the momentos, I found a few precious gems - my grandparents' engagement announcement - isn't Gannie a beauty?
A sweet card from Pops to Gannie while he was working in Kansas City.
The start of my mom's swimming career...
...and all of her swimming ribbons.  She was a swimming champ!  Swimming definitely runs in our family :)

All in all, it was a lovely weekend and a great way to spend the holiday.  Hope you had a safe and enjoyable 4th of July! 


Friday, July 12, 2013

high five for friday

Happy Friday!  Summer is finally, really here in Indy, and this girl couldn't be happier.  I'm linking up with Lauren to share five silver linings this week:
 
1.  I'm still on a high from spending the Fourth of July weekend with my family up in the IN Dunes. 
 2. The hubby has taken on P-90X... which means that I've been spoiled this week with all of the delicious healthy dinners that he has cooked for me. It's a big plus that we are also eating better than we have for...oh, our entire marriage.  (With the exception of my secret love of pie, of course.)

3.  Our new patio furniture has arrived!  I'm so looking forward to entertaining in the backyard, now that we finally have places for guests to sit.
4. I had a lovely Friday lunch and impromptu ice cream sundaes on the circle with a dear friend. So thankful for her.

5.  Steve and I have a date night tonight to see The King and I at the IMA.  I grew up loving this musical (home sweet house, anyone?) and can't wait to see it under the stars.  Also, I'm excited to check this one off of my summer to-do list!

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

the secret life of pie

I hope you all had a lovely fourth of July!  We spent the long weekend up at Gannie's house with my extended family and had a blast.  I'll be posting more pics of our holiday soon....but this post is actually about P-90X and pie.

So, my husband started P-90X yesterday.  I'm pretty sure he has done all of the workout routines before (pre-dating and marriage), but this time he decided to jump on the P-90X foodplan too.  Apparently Tony highly encourages the P-90X participants to follow a strict diet for the 90 days to maximize results.  Makes sense.  But when you are married to someone who is devoted to the P-90X diet, you somehow find yourself also on the same diet, kind of like collateral damage.  Now there are a couple of perks to this: 1) Steve has taken up both cooking and grocery shopping in one fell swoop, leaving me to sit back and relax while he makes dinner; and 2) I am forced to eat healthy, which really is a blessing in disguise. 

Last night, Steve made beef and veggie stirfry.  It was quite delicious!  We finished the meal feeling full and satisfied.  Since it was already close to bedtime by the time we were done (Steve is a very thorough chef and takes his time), we moseyed upstairs to get ready for bed.  About ten minutes later, Steve noticed that I had disappeared and came back downstairs in search of me. 

He found me, sitting on the floor of our living room watching "Love It Or List It" on HGTV (great show) and eating a gigantic piece of lemon meringue pie.  Oops.  As it turns out, Gannie had sent us back home from the holiday with an entire delicious homemade pie, and I am a total sucker for good pie.  So, P-90X diet be darned, it was time to enjoy a piece of that yummy pie!  And enjoy it, I did. 
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Steve's reaction: "Of course, I should have known when my wife disappeared that she would be downstairs on the floor eating pie.  Of course."

Does he know me or what? :)

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

mary mary, quite contrary

Mary, Mary, quite contrary,
How does your garden grow?
With silver bells and cockle shells,
And pretty maids all in a row.
This summer, we decided to re-do some landscaping in our backyard.  The previous owners hadn't done much with the yard, and it was ridden with weeds by the time we moved in at the end of last summer.  Steve has a pretty extensive knowledge base for gardening (his parents are both avid gardeners), so while my exposure to midwest plant-growing was minimal, we felt confident that we could tackle the yard and plant some new pretty plants over the course of a weekend or two. 
 
Boy, were we wrong.
 
Before I get ahead of myself, we began with three primary target areas:
1) Backyard flower bed (we deemed this the redbud kingdom. More to come on that.), 
 
2) Patio flower beds (sadly, I never took a "before" picture of these bad boys, but essentially if you envision a weed-infested patch of mulch, you've got a pretty good idea of what it looked like), and
 
 3) Overgrown vegetable garden (or shall we say, weed forest?),
 
We visited our local Lowe's to stock up on pretty new plants.  It was actually quite fun planning out what we wanted to go where - not to mention the flower section in the store is so colorful and fun to explore! 
 
Once all of our new plants were purchased and ready to go, our next step was to pull out all the weeds and prepare the soil for planting new plans.  This is when we encountered two unfortunate realizations:

Realization Number #1: Our backyard was actually a baby redbud forest in disguise. See the lovely tree on the right side of this picture? 
 
That is a redbud tree, which releases seed-pods every year. Apparently our particular redbud has been especially seed-pod-happy over the last several years...and the previous owners never cleared the pods out when they fell...which resulted in baby redbuds growing everywhere. See all of those tall weed-looking things? All baby redbuds.  There were also redbuds under the patio, in the vegetable garden, and pretty much anywhere a weed was growing. 
 
Here's the difference between pulling weeds and pulling redbuds - the redbuds have big roots.  A lot of them.  Can't really blame the poor things, they were just trying to build an entire redbud forest so of course their roots would be huge and deep.  But that clearly did not make the job of clearing them out any easier for us.
After fighting with the redbuds for several days weekends, we finally cleared a majority of the redbud forest.  Whew!  Here's the flower bed in progress:
Much better!
 
Realization #2: Gravel in a flower bed is never a good idea.  Turns out the previous owners must have really hated landscaping, because directly underlying the mulch in the patio flower beds was a thick layer of gravel.  Our best guess is that, since our house was used as a rental in the early-mid 2000's, the owner dumped gravel everywhere to keep the landscaping as low-maintenance as possible.  Which is great and all, except 1) weeds still managed to grow through the gravel and 2) to cultivate a healthy flower bed, we had to remove all of the gravel and refill the holes with healthy soil. Terrific.
We dug down until we hit healthy soil - probably a good two feet below the surface - all the way around the patio beds.  The process took several weekends to complete and was pretty intense manual labor for us.  I don't know how landscapers do it...the work is exhausting! 
(Note Steve's "I'm exhausted, please stop taking pictures" smile below - he's a good sport)
We dumped the gravel next to the pond in our backyard.  All in all, that pile was about 2.5 ft high when we were done.
 
Once the gravel was removed, we were left with a clean slate for building up a new flower bed.  (As an aside, Lyla was very intrigued by the entire gardening process.  She followed us all around the yard each day, tromped through the newly-uncovered dirt and even posed for pictures.  Silly girl.)
While I was out of town visiting family, Steve took on the task of building up the flower beds with new dirt, peet and manuer.  I am blessed to have a husband so willing to work for hours to beautify our yard - he worked very hard and had everything waiting for me to plant when I got back! 
 
He also tackled the vegetable garden while I was gone.  I was a little skeptical about the vegetable garden, since I've never had one before, but he was very excited about the prospect of one so I let him run wild with it. 
 
 He cleared the weeds, cultivated the soil and planted beens, sunflowers, a pumpkin, squash, tomatoes and a jalapeno pepper.  When he was all done, the weed forest was completely transformed - and the vegetables have really thrived in the new garden bed!  Excuse the bad-quality photo, but you can see the beans growing on the right and tomato plants climbed their way up on the left.  It's been exciting to watch them all grow from just seeds!
 
When I got back into town, we finally got to put all of our new plants in the ground - a good 1.5 months after the process had begun.  Oh sweet, sweet victory!  It may have taken us a while to get everything done, but we are very pleased with the final results and now feel like we can really enjoy our backyard this summer! 
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We are still working on a couple of things in the yard/patio (aka a new grill and new patio furniture that we ordered last week!), so I'll post more comprehensive pictures of the backyard once everything is complete.  Until then, you can find me outside enjoying our new gardens :)